We all know America has one of the most ass-backwards public sex education systems in the world. Some students receive abstinence-only sex ed and have to learn about sex the old fashioned way. Sex ed is not only important so you know how to play safe when having sex, but it is also important so you know exactly how to please your partner and yourself when you hit the sack.

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First, get a man in bed

1) Get a man in bed

Warm him up good

2) Tell him to lie on his back [or make him]

3) Give him a pillow so he’s comfortable [put one under his ass too]

4) Go down town [lick his cock on the way down to tease him]

5) Put your hands on his thighs and lift his butt using your elbows for support

6) Get comfortable, lay on your side [take your time]

7) Go for it, eat his ass like its the end of the world

8) Keep going [here’s a full guide]

Find The P-Spot final

Get inside

9) But first, go up and give ‘em a kiss [be nice!]

10) Lube his ass and your fingers [cut your fingernails gentleman]

11) Lick his nipple on your way down [p.s. wet the nipple x 2]

12) Lightly pinch and rub his nipple with your thumb & index finger [to relax him]

13) While rubbing his nipple, play with his asshole, then slide in your finger [go slowww]

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Hit that p-spot!

14) The prostate is about 3 inches inside

15) You want to do a “come here” action [he’s on his back and your index finger points up]

16) Look at the curvature on this sex toy to see the perfect position [30% off and free shipping with code GRIND]

17) If he’s younger it’s harder to find. Be patient or use this guy, it’s like Waze for prostate. [35% off and free shipping with code GRIND]

18) Do something with your other hand while inside. Nipple, rub his ear, something.

Fuck his brains out!

19) If you like it hardcore, go a step further before you fuck him by hitting his perineum [the space between his ass and scrotum] at the SAME time as the prostate WHILE it vibrates, with the full arch on this anal bead prostate vibrator bad boy [35% off and free shipping with code GRIND]

20) If you fuck him doggy style then come in from the top so you are above his ass

21) The idea is to fuck the back of his dick from the inside of his ass. [read that again]
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22) Don’t just jam it in horizontally if you are fucking doggy style

23) If he is on his back, then you want to curve up. Its easier to do that if he has a pillow under his ass. Pro: Lift his left leg with your right arm and go in from the bottom.

24) Try these out, check out the toys below, and let us know what you think @thegailygrind !

Sex toys for hitting the prostate

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For those who are getting started

The locator if you are new to anal sex

For those who are kinky
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For those who want direct prostate action
The 3 speed sex machine for explosive prostate orgasms.
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Watch porn star Colby Keller helps us navigate the prostate, below:

BONUS: These Kinky Sex Toys Are Guaranteed To Spice Up Your Bedroo

Have you been looking for ways to add some kink into the bedroom?

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Turn your bedroom into a kinky playground with the ‘Under The Bed Restraint System‘. It sets up in just seconds. Just slide these naughty restraint straps with cuffs under your mattress, and you’ll have an instant bondage bedroom.

Couples will love being able to explore their bondage fantasies from the comfort of their own bed.

Simply place the straps under your mattress. That’s it! You can either put them at the head and foot, or around the sides depending on preference. The restraint straps and center strap are adjustable up to 66” to fit any size bed. Then snap in the cuffs, place them on your submissive, and let the fun begin.

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The cuffs are lightly padded and have Velcro closures for comfort and safety. Adjusting the straps lets you control how far your partner is stretched open. You’ll love watching them squirm in excitement and anticipation. Since the cuffs have clips on them, you can also use them separately for other bondage games around the house.

When you’re done with your play, just tuck everything under the mattress until your next adventure.

Always make sure to talk with your partner before you begin any BSDM play and go over boundaries, so you both have an enjoyable and safe play session.

Show your man who’s boss with a Short Suede Flogger!

Make it an exciting evening of naughty or nice with this amply tasseled suede flogger.

With a flick of your wrist, you can deliver big pleasure, wrapped up in a small package. Measuring 15.75 inches from end to end, (handle is 4.75 inches) this little whip is crafted from sensual, flexible, and soft suede strips that can leave a whisper of sensation across skin or a more notable “love tap” to make him remember.

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The spiral wrapped handle is topped with a loop, for your wrists or hanging storage.

There they are – suspended in the air, spread open and waiting for you! With this heavy-duty Extreme Sling, you can now have better access to your lover, while exploring the thrilling world of bondage play!

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Short Suede Extreme SlingFlogger

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Beginners and bondage enthusiasts alike will love how this extreme sling provides total body support, while giving you the freedom to explore your partner’s most private of areas.

Simply have them lie back on the leather sling and place their feet in the stirrups! They’re now open to whatever kinky fantasy you have in mind. A padded headrest cradles them in comfort so you can extend the fun. The stirrups are also detachable via strong metal carabineers if you feel like bending them over instead. Adjustable straps let you raise or lower their upper body so you always are at the right angle.

The Extreme Sling measures 38” long by 21” wide.

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If you’d rather spend your valuable time with your lover instead of tying and untying knots, then you’ll both love this rope-free kit!

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Hot Tie & Cuff Set

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The four softly padded restraints attach with metal clips to one of four connection points on a steel o-ring. Use two restraints to make handcuffs or use three or more at once for a more exotic arrangement. Velcro keeps each of the restraints locked into place securely and safely while you act out your fantasies.

Never be without the perfect size butt plug again!

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Colt Anal Trainer Kit

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These Colt Butt Plugs begin with a modest size girth of only 1 inch on the small one and grows to 2 inches in the large. Slowly build up your insertion tolerance with this 3 level kit or simply add variety to your backdoor pleasure regimen. All are solid black and made from soft but sturdy rubber.

Give it to him real good even if he never cums when you blow him and it makes you mad.

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The AutoBlow is also a super funny gift if you are stressed out about what to get him. Just turn it on every time you are too tired to blow him.

Consider the revolutionary L‘arque Prostate Massager. This prostate massager sends vibrations directly to your hot spot for the most explosive orgasms ever. With a little dab of lube, the smooth silicone slides effortlessly inside. An angled shaft and rounded head ensure stimulation is always where you need it. The ergonomic handle aids in thrusting and keeps your grip comfortable so you can focus on your enjoyment.

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L’arque Prostate Massager

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Plus, the Adam & Eve L’Arque Prostate Massager is always ready when you are. Never worry about dead or dying batteries interrupting your pleasure. Plug the included USB adapterl and an LED indicator light lets you know it’s packing on the power. When it turns green you’re fully charged and on your way to orgasmic bliss with up to 4 hours of vibrating goodness.

The L’Arque turns on with just the tap of a power button located in the top of the handle. The vibration button then lets you cycle through 3 speeds of vibration. Maybe you like a low gentle buzz or a high va-va-voom? More taps provide 4 functions that range from steady pulses to super quick bursts so you can customize your pleasure. The waterproof design lets you enjoy this toy on sea or on land, and it’s backed by Adam & Eve’s lifetime guarantee to ensure your total satisfaction.

Get ready to explore the amazing, and orgasmic, world of anal play with this complete kit designed for the ultimate backdoor experience.

  • Classix Prostate Stimulator
  • Anal Beads
  • Beaded Probe Stick
  • Textured finger sleeve
  • Butt Plug with suction cup base
  • FREE 5-piece Prep Kit
  • Perfect for solo use or to share with a friend
  • Phthalate free

Your journey to anal ecstasy includes 5 pieces that have been carefully selected to offer the best beginner experience, although they’re perfect for those familiar with butt play as well. This kit includes the following popular toys:

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Let the anal games begin with this wireless, remote controlled butt plug!  Lube the tip of this sleek silicone plug and gently insert it. The flanged base ensures it won’t go in too far.

The width immediately fills you and makes you squirm in delight, but that’s only the beginning. Tap the bottom of the plug and the internal bullet provides powerful, yet quiet vibrations to thrill your posterior. Still want more?  This plug delivers. A separate remote turns your plug on and off, as well and distributes 20 different pulsation patterns to your sweet spot. Imagine you…or your lover…cycling through waves of pulse pounding, climax-inducing vibrations. Which one will drive you over the edge?  The games can continue as long as you do since the remote works from an amazing 25” away.

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