Do you remember where you were 18 years ago?  I was in my third year of teaching high school in a small Maine town with a student population 330 and town population of 3,200.  Everyone knew everyone.  If you wanted privacy, you would have to leave town.  I had started going to gay bars, had just been on a very few dates, dealt with some psychos, dead ends, but never found someone that helped me be me.  As youngins, we search for a searchlight to make sure we are headed in the right direction, some kind of signal that yes, we can.

Eighteen years ago today, Matthew stopped into the Fireside Bar in Laramie, Wyoming, to take a break from his studies at home. By the following morning, a family, and a nation, was changed forever by an act of senseless violence. We continue to grieve and share Matt’s story with the world, and every October we are reminded of the strength we have because of you, our supporters. Even after 18 years, the Foundation, through its programs and partnerships, has never been more necessary and has never reached more people in need than it does today. With each passing year, we honor Matt by continuing to achieve monumental steps toward true equality, and we honor you for making it possible. We remember Matt and all those who have suffered discrimination, harm and loss at the hands of bigotry and hatred, and we continue our work to prevent others from experiencing a similar fate. – Matthew Shepard Foundation


Matthew was attacked on October 6th, 1998 and passed away six days later at Poudre Valley Hospital in Fort Collins, Colorado, on October 12, from severe head injuries.  The news of his passing came at a very critical part of my life.  I was teaching, dealing with National Coming Out Day with my students and myself, and then this tragedy happened.

Flash forward to today.  We will have is a graduating group of high school seniors that will not remember Matthew Shepard and most likely, the graduating college seniors won’t remember being alive when we lost Matthew, 18 years ago. October 11th will be the 28th Anniversary of National Coming Out Day as well.

LGBT history is not just in the summer months with Prides and Stonewall.  There are many days that need remembering, both celebratory days and unfortunate ones.

If you know someone that may need to be educated on Matthew Shepard, the entire hour and a half Laramie Project Movie can be found online as well as inserted here.

Moisés Kaufman and members of New York’s Tectonic Theater Project went to Laramie, Wyoming after the murder of Matthew Shepard. This is a film version of the play they wrote based on more than 200 interviews they conducted in Laramie. It follows and in some cases re-enacts the chronology of Shepard’s visit to a local bar, his kidnap and beating, the discovery of him tied to a fence, the vigil at the hospital, his death and funeral, and the trial of his killers. It mixes real news reports with actors portraying friends, family, cops, killers, and other Laramie residents in their own words. It concludes with a Laramie staging of “Angels in America” a year after Shephard’s death. –


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