You know you have thought about this question
As a guy man, I know what it means to be constantly surrounded by guys. It is not like you drool about sleeping with everyone, because it is not how this works. But when you are constantly in the company of a lot of guys, out of which many are straight, you can’t help but wonder, you know?
I am sure many of you have a lot of straight guys as their friends, both online and in the real world. Being part of a diverse entourage is how life works. So, I know this is a question running through all of your heads as it did through mine – Do any of our straight friends think about fucking us?
This aspect is quite intriguing for a lot of people, especially when you hear about some straight dude going through a gay experience and remaining straight. This is confusing. So, what does this tells us about how a straight guy’s mind works? Let’s have a look:
- Experimenting something new is always fun
That doesn’t make them gay, just a bit…kinky.
- Gay behavior could result as part of a perversion
Sexual perversions including gay thoughts are not as uncommon as you might think. In fact, a lot of straight guys think about having sex with another guy. Not constantly, but it does crosses their mind once in a while. Obviously, they will never admit it if it were to kill them. You can’t admit something like that. You have a reputation to keep and, in their minds, you can’t mix gay with alpha male.
- There is some type of narcissism at play
It is a fact that narcissist people tend to cross the line easier than the rest. They just love feeling the rush of forcing other people to their will and use them to fill up their fantasies. Some straight guys would even go as far as having sex with gay dudes in order to feed their ego. If you were looking for something weird, here you go.
- They are only superficially straight
What does this mean exactly? It means that some may only think they are straight, when in reality they are not. It is not that they are closeted gays, but they haven’t figured the truth yet. It happens sometimes and there are cases with gays realizing the truth about themselves late in their 40s, while being in a 20 years old marriage, with 2 kids. It happens.
- They might be sex addicts
Those who are suffering from this condition may even resort to desperate measures, when the situation gets crucial. It was found that some straight men would actually go gay on several occasions, when they have limited access to women.
- They like to spice things up
You know how one’s sex life can devolve into something quite boring at times? Or how, sometimes, you just feel the need to try out something new? This is exactly what is going on here, when you see straight dudes going full gay on some occasions. This is just them experimenting with something new and it is not something bad at all.
A lot of straight guys dream about having sex with a dude
As it turns out, it is in our genes to do so. It is not like every straight guy does it, but it is definitely a common trait. More common than some would like to believe or admit. It is a behavior present in almost all animal societies, humans included. Heterosexual individuals will sometimes engage in homosexual behavior, without being homosexual. Because being homosexual has to do more with biology and less with education.
Progesterone levels might have something to do with it
Progesterone is female hormone, as opposed to testosterone, which is the male one. And it has been observed that guys with higher level of progesterone in their system, due to various reasons, tend to manifest more sexual tendencies than the rest. These are the same guys that like to play with anal stimulation, which is more or less a normal behavior among heterosexual individuals.
Anal stimulation hits the G-spot, located near the prostate, for extensive feelings of pleasure and, while not many guys are willing to admit it, a lot have experienced it at least once.
As sexual beings, we still have a lot to learn about ourselves
The majority of people tend to take sexuality for granted and consider that everything is pretty much crystal clear. Which is obviously false. Sexuality is anything but simple and we can see that every day. We have a lot of desires, hidden dreams, lusts, fantasies and burying them under a pile of social taboos does us no good.
Gay or straight, it makes little difference. If you enjoy doing something and you get a lot of pleasure out of it, just do it. Don’t mind critics, because they will always be there, analyzing your every life’s aspect, hoping to find something to cling on to.
So, next time you will see a straight guy who can’t keep his eye off of you, now you know what he’s thinking.