Tag: anal sex

I went out tonight. Late. Not to the city, the bars, or the clubs. I had something different in mind tonight. An itch I needed to scratch. I jumped the train to the West End and took a slow walk towards the park. I'd been before, once, but I was still nervous. Nervous and excited. The lust was in me, rising, choking me. I needed to get it out of me, to release it into the wild. Sometimes it was overwhelming....

The Benham Brothers are up in arms again. This time, they’re absolutely livid about $400,000 of taxpayer money being used to fund a program called SHIFT (Sexual Health Initiative for Teens) in North Carolina. According to its website, SHIFT is a nonprofit that works to “improve adolescent and young adult sexual health” by focusing on “successful, evidence-based methods to make a positive change for teen pregnancy prevention, HIV and STIs, healthy development, sexuality, and relationships.” The statewide organization likes to say...

A high court judge has ruled that Trinidad and Tobago’s colonial-era law criminalising gay sex is “unconstitutional”. Justice Devindra Rampersad has ruled that Section 13 and Section 16 of the Caribbean nation’s Sexual Offences Act should be removed, following a lawsuit filed by LGBTQ activist Jason Jones against the country’s attorney general. Jones – who is a citizen of Trinidad and Tobago as well as the United Kingdom – claimed that these particular sections of the Sexual Offences Act violated his...

This new research on gay men's preference of position, sex toys and sexual health might surprise you There’s a belief out there that gay men are having anal sex every single day. It turns out that isn’t the case whatsoever. New research by Bespoke Surgical interviewed 300 gay men of different ages about their sex lives. It found: 13% have anal sex daily 39% of gay men have it a couple times a week 24% of gay men have it a couple times...

Contrary to popular opinion, not all gay men enjoy anal sex. There are a variety of reasons as to why some of us don't go to that level, but what happens if you are in a relationship with someone who flat out tells you its something you don't enjoy? Furthermore, what if it's something you happen to not only be good at, but love to do? Does this put a wedge in your blossoming relationship, or is it something...

YouTuber Bradley Birkholz reflects on the hateful comments he got about identifying as a side When I admitted to the world that I didn’t much care for anal sex – I didn’t expect quite such a hateful backlash. I recently wrote for Gay Star News about how I identify as a side. It’s someone who either doesn’t engage in anal at all, or just isn’t bothered by it. But, I was surprised by how controversial my sex life was to readers and...