Most of the relationships in ‘our world’ include talks about having a child, too. They usually are not taken that serious, because having a child that is biologically yours is confined only within dreams and fictions, at least, we thought so.
But there is an incredibly courageous male, who has decided to change this situation relying on today’s highly developed medicine. It might sound and look too absurd and for the vast majority of people it does, but according to him males should also be able to taste that feeling of giving birth to their own children. Now just make a pause, stop reading for a minute and think about it – I’m sure many of us, homosexual boys have dreamt many times of becoming father, and every time we think about it, we see the only option as possible and it’s adopting. But it cannot be the same as having your own biologic child, can it?
Here is the conversation between writer Janice Versalius and Mr. Lee, who was then being strictly observed by doctors and soon, everyone hoped that he would successfully give birth to the first born-of-male child:
Mr. Lee, as we just discussed, male pregnancy may prove to be an extremely dangerous medical procedure at this point – particularly when your doctors perform your Cesarian operation. Why have you chosen to do this?
A lot of people have cast this endeavor as something terribly monstrous – a startling example of how science and medicine have simply gone too far. From my perspective, however, I am simply bringing a child into this world. There is nothing more natural and beautiful on this earth than that. This is something that I’ve always wanted to do.
But surely you understand why some people find the idea of a pregnant man disturbing?
Well, I understand how it may be a shocking concept at first. Biologically, women have always given birth to children, and men have not. Despite the dramatic results of the sexual revolution in the latter half of this century, there are still very distinct and concrete social roles determined by this… until now… undeniable biological fact. Now, it seems, we have several important questions to consider. Why shouldn’t men carry children and care for a fetus the same way a woman does? Why shouldn’t a man bear a burden that women have always carried? On the other hand, why shouldn’t a man be able to experience the same joy and excitement that a pregnant woman feels nurturing a child within her own body? Now I think men, as well as women, have more choices, more possibilities, more roles they can assume in their lives.
(The conversation is taken from RYT-Hospital’s site -, which supervises Mr. Lee’s pregnancy).
Reading this has probably encouraged you, and now hearing the truth will not please you, but It should not assassinate your hope, because today medicine is about to make it happen for real, and also, there’s nothing wrong with adopting a child, although it doesn’t carry your genes, it’s a lovely being that will warm your family. In the next thread you will get to know more about a real case and that couple’s heartwarming story.
In case, you are interested in this experiment called Mr. Lee – you can watch a video about it on this link: