Gay ‘throuple’ wants to start a family

Shayne Curran, Adam Grant and Sebastian Tran from Halifax, Nova Scotia have been in a threesome relationship since 2012, and they plan on starting a family together.

Shayne and Adam were married when they met Sebastian but last year they got a divorce so Sebastian would feel a complete part of the threesome relationship.

“We’re the happiest we’ve ever been – all our dynamics and personalities work so well in a relationship. The three of us bring out the best in each other,” 29-year-old Medical Administration student Shayne said.

“We didn’t want Sebastian to be excluded or feel like the third wheel in our relationship. So Shayne and I decided to get a divorce so that we could make a renewed commitment between the three of us instead.

“We want to make sure that we’re all equally bound and obligated to each other in marriage,” 27-year-old nursing student Adam added.

Shayne and Adam were experiencing dating with other men as a couple when they met Sebastian in a nightclub.

“Adam and I wanted to have a little more fun so we decided to experiment with multiple partners.

“We never intended it to be anything serious, we were certainly never planning on taking on a full-time third partner by any means. It was just bit of sexual experimentation.

“So one night, Shayne and I were in a nightclub with some friends. Sebastian caught our eye.

“He was dancing to ‘Gangnam Style’, which we found hilarious and we thought he was really cute.”

“We started chatting to Sebastian and the conversation just came really easily. After leaving the nightclub, we went home with Sebastian and spent the whole evening with him,” Shayne and Adam confessed.

Adam explained how they felt when they met Sebastian.

“It was such an amazing night. Sebastian was different to anyone we had ever met. There was something about him that Shayne and I couldn’t explain, but it was like meeting our life partner for the second time.”

Sebastian is 29 years old and he is a doctor in the military. He had just come out the year before meeting Adam and Shayne.

“I came out as gay pretty late in life. When I met Adam and Shayne, I was still in the phase of just seeing what everything was about.

“I hadn’t been in a relationship yet before either so I didn’t know what to expect. I just knew that I really liked Adam and Shayne and they made me happy.

“At the time, I didn’t think I was ready to commit to anyone so it was a surprise when I fell for both Adam and Shayne. I didn’t think I wanted one boyfriend let alone two.

“But from the moment we met, we started spending all our time together. We were inseparable,” Sebastian said.

The “throuple” wants to start a family and have children using all of their genetics, and Shayne’s sister offered to be a surrogate mother and donate her eggs.

The relationship between the three men evolved naturally and they never felt weird about it.

“It just seemed like the natural path for us, we just realised what we were.

“We never really had ‘the conversation’ of let’s all be together as a couple. It just sort of happened,” Sebastian said.

The “throuple” wants everything to be as official as possible, even if three-some marriages are not legal.

“Although being married to more than one person is not yet legal, we have spoken lawyers who can draw up paperwork to make sure we are equally bound and obligated to each other in the eyes of the law,” Adam said.

So, let’s meet these hunky gays who decided to talk about life together and about their plans for future.