If you ask most straight people, they seem to think the sex lives of gay men are all about anal sex; in fact to talk to some of them, they seem more obsessed at the thought of us doing it than we are! Sure – anal sex can be great and loads of guys love it, although some can take it or leave it – but there’s so much more to gay sex than that, and so much more than a bit of ass action that makes gay sex absolutely great!
So here are the top eight most delicious things about gay sex; ready? Let’s go!
1 We know what we feel like
One of the greatest things about having sex with another guy is that we already know how our bodies work, what feels good and what feels great! Of course, everybody is slightly different and part of the joy of sex is discovering what works for our partner, but it’s great to have a good idea of how things work before we even get started
2 We can show, not just tell
This is related to the first point; instead of just telling a partner what we like about something, we can show them – and maybe show them something new! Maybe this is why we’re more adventurous in bed…
3 We’re more adventurous
Maybe it’s because we have to overcome stereotypes, or maybe its’ just because we’re more horny – but whatever, gay men sure are adventurous in bed! Even straightforward anal sex is something few straight couples ever even try – so we’re already one ahead on them.
4 It feels more taboo, and so more exciting
Although the world is changing fast, for the better – there is still something taboo about gay sex. And that very illicitness makes it al the more exciting and enticing. So even our ‘vanilla’ sex feels more thrilling than the straight version.
5 Bottoming
And speaking of anal sex – gay men are the experts when it comes to this kind of bouncing between the sheets! So few straight people will ever know how good it feels to take it ‘up there’, the bliss you get when you both get into the pace of things and really lose yourself in the moment
6 We get more blowjobs
…and we get more blowjobs because we LOVE giving them; so this is a two-for-one! To hear straight men talk you’d think they never have oral sex, while of course with gay guys we can hardly stop giving, taking, or both at the same time!
7 We can get it easily
Getting sex has always been easy for us gays, if we were willing enough to go out there and find it. Nowadays of course it’s easier than ever; from websites that let us find anyone, anywhere, to apps that allow us to find people right here and right now. The door is wide open for us to have multiple partners and experience multiple bodies of all shapes and sizes – remember what I said about being adventurous?
8 …and we can get it all the time
Gay men can be insatiable when it comes to sex! Sure, this means we can get it from loads of guys easily, but when we’re in a monogamous relationship that sex drive doesn’t stop – so we can still be banging away like rabbits long into a relationship. And of course, a healthy sex life makes for a healthy relationship (see – this article isn’t ALL sex!)
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