We have found a story-confession of one Reddit user who decided to write about the first time he tried gay sex being straight guy.
So are you eager to know what happened during the first gay intercouse in his life and what this dude decided for himself? We think you might be interested in his story so we are going to share it with you.
“….Ok so i’m just going to bitch for my own closure and sorting out what just happened and you guys can just read, If i say anything to offend anyone i apologize in advance.
Ok so for a few years now i’ve been curious about sleeping with a guy. I watched the porn and questioned my sexuality about my thoughts and fantasies, and thought to myself one day it’ll happen and then we’ll know. Well it happened, and i wasn’t a fan.
So it started off last night i was in a really horny mood grabbed my … and double clicked for all the porn i could find and then the adventurous side of my brain woke up and pointed me to craigs list and next thing i knew i was emailing this guy in the same situation as me, curious and wanting to experiment.
So the next day happens and we’re still emailing and we arrange to meet at stupid oclock in the morning and see what happens. luckily he was a really nice guy shy and kind hearted. Any guy would be lucky to have him as a partner. Anyway many things happened and we end up there lying on the bed, a touch bemused with what just went down.
It was at this moment I realized that I’m really not gay. Ok so it took sex with a stranger to help me realize and i’d be lying if some bits werent interesting but those questions have been put to rest. Personally sex with guys is crap and there’s no beauty in it for me. Ok so inexperience will have played a part but at the base of it, it didn’t feel right for me, and was actually kinda dull compared to sex with women. Regardless i’ve got to be thankful for the experience otherwise i would have spent forever wondering what it might be like.
So yea there’s my confession.
I guess you could use this as proof against all those people that say being gay is a choice. It’s really not.”
Such first experience maybe clarified something for this guy or maybe he just experienced his first gay intercourse with a wrong partner who spoilt everything.
What do you think about it? And what was your first time gay experience?
Source story: np.reddit.com
Maybe sex with strangers isn’t his thing rather than sex with men?
That’s what I was thinking.
Or maybe he’s just not into gay sex lol
Pish-posh. Lol
I can relate a story of a friend who labeled himself as totally straight; he indicated that he had never had any thoughts about sex other than with a female. At a party, he had an opportunity to try gay sex! At the ripe old age of 33, he married his first gay partner; they have been together now for almost 10 years! They are ONE happy couple!
What I have found – gay, straight, or bi – is that the individual – background, family environment, and individual psyche – play a tremendous role in who the individual choses as a partner. The partnering has its own issues; gay or straight couples must deal with many issues. The success of the partnering is dependent upon the amount of effort each contributes to the partnering!
Yessir! I’m writing my doctoral dissertation right now and one of my theoretical frameworks is the social relations of sexuality and you touched on some of the concepts I mention regarding matchmaking. 🙂
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