Tag: relationships

Time is a fickle thing. And space is the final frontier. So the space/time continuum must, then, be a fickle final frontier. Sorry, what were we talking about? The folks at Grindr’s Into have assembled their team of adorable gays of a certain age to once again reminisce — this time on relationships past. The whole exercise is a heart swell and may potentially produce some aching, though ultimately happy, tears. Watch: Dan Tracer is a queer writer, handstand enthusiast, and lover of all Kaytranada remixes. Find...

Getting ghosted on Grindr is common. Getting cat-fished also happens. And sometimes… your hookup shows up and your landlord has sex with him, mistaking him for HIS Grindr hookup. Wait, what?That’s what happened to this guy on Reddit, who just wanted to have some fun, and ended up with a crazy story (AND some fun.)“I scheduled to meet with a dude I met on Grindr (Kyle) over the weekend and we had only shared one pic”, he writes. “I...

Some gay men enjoy topping, others are versatile, and some are sworn bottoms – whatever your preference in bed, there’s always more to learn and ways to improve your sex life – so some expert bottoms are here to help.Whether you’re a top who’s looking to learn some tricks or a bottom that wants  to expand his horizons (there’s a pun in there somewhere) – these guys from Reddit were asked: “What do you like that your top does?” –...

"It’s good for the world; it’s good for me as a gay man with kids." Ricky Martin says he wants to do his part in normalizing open relationships among gay men. The 46-year-old star is currently playing Gianni Versace’s longtime partner, Antonio D’Amico, on The Assassination of Gianni Versace: American Crime Story. While committed to each other for 15 years, the two were open and slept with other people. Martin says he hopes the series dispels some of the misunderstandings and...

We've featured Psychotherapist Matthew Dempsey's YouTube videos many times over the years. And in his latest YouTube video, he examines, "The Art of Gay Friending." Dempsey recalls that when he first moved to Los Angeles, it was easy to meet people who wanted to make plans. However... "But what i quickly realized was that I was mistaking everybody's general pleasantries with people who were actually willing and able to follow-up, and wanted to create some friendships. And that was really hard." So what...

Our Web Editor shares his thoughts on what it's like dating - or not - in your 20s Acceptance doesn’t come with age, or from finding someone else, it comes from within yourself. Whether you’re on gay apps or going to bars to find Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now, there’s absolutely no denying that almost all of us are out there looking for someone to share our lives with – in whatever capacity that relationship may turn out to be. As...

“Plant your feet and stand tall”, Mary Lincoln said. “The only question is knowing where to plant them”. I was born in a Christian home but even as a 12 year old, my mind seemed to be already flawed. When I was 9 and all the girls were having crushes on boys, I was in the sport stands with my male friends, reading a book as I cheered them on and got hot flushes from looking at the girls...