women I’ve dated have said to me when I’ve revealed my bisexuality. It’s almost always negative, is it any wonder so many bi men keep it a secret?
Despite what some believe, bisexual people are everywhere. It’s just that bisexuality is invisible. When I walk down the street with my two kids and female fiancée – people think ‘straight’.
Years before, when I walked down the street holding hands with my then boyfriend, people thought ‘gay’. We are a visual species.
That’s why, every year, on 23 September, we celebrate Bi Visibility Day. A chance to put the focus on seeing bisexuality and the issues bi people face.