A post shared by José Rolón (@nycgaydad) on José Rolón (a.k.a. @nycgaydad) is a single gay dad who has been going viral for his social media posts that poke fun at parenthood and gay culture simultaneously.“I grew up in a machismo household with a father who yelled at me to ‘walk like a man and not like a f*ggot,’” the 44-year-old single dad tells TODAY. “If you had pulled me aside and said, ‘One day you’ll have a big, happy family,’ I wouldn’t have believed you.”Today, Rolón is the father of 7-year-old son, Avery, and 6-year-old twin daughters, Lilah and London.“I want LGBTQ youth to know that there’s hope,” he says. “I get messages from moms all the time that are like, ‘My son is 13 and he’s gay and really struggling.