The Real Housewives Of Salt Lake City, but do you remember “The Real Gay Men’s Wives of Salty Lake City”?Excuse us, maybe we should refer to it by its actual name—we mean My Husband’s Not Gay, the controversial reality TV special that aired on TLC in 2015.Yes, nearly a decade ago, the network formally known as The Learning Channel aired an hour-long special all about a group of Mormon men living in SLC, Utah who were either married to women or pursuing committed relationships with women despite experiencing SSA, a.k.a.