Hey Jake,I thought I’d seen it all, but my experience last night left me dumbfounded and, honestly, a little grossed out. I met a guy at the bar, things clicked, and we went back to his place, which was only a short Uber ride away. Once we got there, he offered me a glass of water and I waited for him on his couch. I figured he was going to take a minute to “get ready” since we’d already established that he was planning to bottom.Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.What I didn’t expect was that the whole process was going to happen right in front of me!He left the bathroom door wide open—it was basically part of the living room—so I could see and hear everything. And by everything, I mean EVERYTHING.
To make it even more awkward, he kept making small talk with me the entire time like it was the most normal thing in the world.To be honest, it completely killed the mood for me. I couldn’t get out of my head after that, and I ended things pretty quickly before heading out. Now I’m wondering—am I overreacting here? Is it weird to think that douching in front of your hookup is… a little much? Or am I just being uptight about the whole thing?Can’t Unsee ItDear Can’t Unsee It,It’s nice that your hookup wanted to freshen up for you, but if we’ve learned anything from Wicked, it’s that sometimes we’re actually better off not seeing what’s behind the curtain… or the bathroom door, for that matter.
What you experienced taps into an important issue: personal boundaries. In hookups, we often think about physical boundaries—what we are and aren’t comfortable doing with someone—but emotional and environmental boundaries are just as crucial. You didn’t sign up for a front-row seat to a preparation routine, and it’s totally valid that it left you feeling, as you put it, “grossed out.”That said, different people have wildly different ideas of what’s appropriate.
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