husband is gay.“Dear Ashley,” writes the woman, identified only as “Mrs. Confused.” “I have been married for 28 years. My husband has been suffering from erectile dysfunction or so he claims, we haven’t had sex in three years.
I recently found out he is has been having sex with trans women. So now I’m confused. He says, he isn’t gay. I kicked him out and found tons of condom wrappers, lubes, and anal plugs.
Should I give him another chance or is he really gay?”Leave it to Ashley to come up with some thoughtful–if pointed–advice.“Dear Mrs.
Confused,” Ashley replies. “For starters, if you are writing in asking if you should stay, you really want to stay. And that’s ok.