Most people with penises learn to ejaculate at a young age. Often in silence, secrecy, and shame. When you're brimming with testosterone and nasty thoughts, you're pushed to finish ASAP or risk the trauma of your folks witnessing you blow your load.
The problem? Most men unknowingly take this “fast and furious” approach with them to adulthood. As a result, they focus too much on reaching ejaculation and too little on the pleasure that precedes it.
With 20% of men jerking more than 4x a week and nearly 80% saying it’s a form of self-care, there's plenty of work to do. If you're jerking off the way you did in high school, it's time to expand your views on male pleasure.