Congratulations queer college graduates of 2020 on this very important and hard-won milestone. Since you are not able to partake in the usual pomp and circumstance, for my very first monthly column for The Advocate (that I am calling “In Gay We Trust”), I wanted to share with you my commencement address.For some of you these years at college were your extraordinary time of coming out, declaring yourself, standing and saying, “This is me,” against all odds.