Just in time for those potentially awkward family holiday gatherings, Out in the Bay — Queer Radio & Podcast offers a throwback special.
It features lesbian author and civil rights attorney Abby Dees, who encourages straight-but-not-narrow folks to go ahead and ask their LGBTQ relatives or friends the questions burning inside them.
Like "Which one of you is the man?" Although that particular query might seem passé in cosmopolitan bubbles like San Francisco, you don't have to go too far to still hear that and similar questions.
If you're queer, grin and bear it, Dees said, even encourage your loved ones to ask. She believes that if asking out of love, there are no stupid questions, they're all opportunities to broaden understanding.