Vacations often require carefully navigating maps in the direction of the desired museum, boutique or dinner reservation. With big city buzz, we try to pack it all during a short time-frame, forgetting to make time for actually hanging out with the local LGBTQers--and just relaxing with brownie or two.From New York to Berlin, GayCities rounded up some urban beaches where it's perfectly acceptable to sprawl on a blanket with a picnic and bottle of wine.