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I spent £80k to become a single dad aged 47

gay man. Then, in my mid-30s, I started to think about having children and what that could look like for me – but I always imagined doing it with a partner. I knew that, more than anything, I wanted to be a dad – but I was waiting for the right person to come along, to embark on that journey with. In my mid-40s, I finally got into a relationship – but it ended after a couple of years. I found myself aged 47, still with no children.At that point, I realised that if I wanted to have kids, which I desperately did, I’d need to go it alone.

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