The Advocate. “She was like, ‘I’m going to post it first,’ I was like, ‘No, I’m going to post it first!’ I wound up doing it first and was like, ‘Oh, bitch, we just went public.’”Since the announcement in March of last year, the two have been busy living their best lives, or at least as best they can during a global pandemic. “Everyone has been supportive, loving, happy that I'm living in my truth, and just having a lot of positive things to say, which is different than what I expected,” Da Brat says about her fans and peers in the hip-hop community. “I expected some people or more people to be negative about it, but it wasn't that way at all.