Netflix and relaxing. I think we're all still working that out about each other. Also, with three of us, each person is only ever a third of the relationship, so you can't be selfish.
There are two people there who will call you out if you're being unreasonable, which happens. It can be emotionally complicated sometimes but we love one another and I wouldn't say we argue much.
Carlos is non-confrontational, I'd need to have a really good reason to argue about something and Hernán can be very direct.
It seems to work so far, and it's not like I sat and made a list of pros and cons about the relationship before embarking on it.I'm realising that a good relationship is one where you're invested enough to work through problems.