Note: In a follow-up DM, the writer explained that her boyfriend still prefers he/him pronouns and the term "boyfriend" for the time being, which is why I'm using them in my response.
Also, in case you didn't know, HRT = hormone replacement therapy. Note: All DMs sent to me are for publication on BuzzFeed. Due to the high volume of messages received, I'm not able to respond to individual messages.