How do you define your sexuality? Most of us know roughly where we fall on the Kinsey scale that goes from zero (totally straight) to six (flaming queen or butchest of dykes).
But have you considered another continuum, the asexual — allosexual one? Science and technology journalist Angela Chen details it eloquently.
Put crudely for space considerations though, the asexual — allosexual continuum has on one end folks repulsed by sex, and on the other end total horn-dogs, with most people — gay, straight and otherwise — between those extremes.
Chen, author of the book "ACE: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex," realized she was asexual ("ace") when she was 24 years old, after learning what asexuality really