As important as lube is, having a partner who will listen to you during anal sex is just as important. You need to communicate what’s going on because when it’s good, it’s good...but it could be bad real quick if your partner doesn’t understand how you are feeling."—adrianaa415ffb068"I just came to say anal sex is amazing when done patiently and correctly. I prefer anal sex over vaginal any day. It is such an intense sensation, and it feels incredible if your partner respects your boundaries.