Dear Abby has offered up a bit of advice to a woman who has discovered her fiancé is a homophobe.“About a year ago, my fiance of six years revealed that he doesn’t think homosexuality is normal or right,” the woman, identified as “More Accepting in Calfornia,” writes. “I was shocked because he had never mentioned it before, nor did I see any signs that he thought that way.
We’ve gone to Pride celebrations, and we both have gay relatives and friends.”“He doesn’t want our future children to be influenced by gay people on TV and doesn’t want me to ‘encourage’ it,” she continues. “He did say that, after the child turns 18, he would accept what they ‘choose.’ I would like to teach my children to accept people’s true selves.