Ricky Martin spent a big chunk of his life–and career–doing and saying what was expected of him. Those days are over.By all accounts, the 49-year-old married father of four has had a hell of a run, first performing at age 12 in the boyband Menudo, rising to pop megastardom as a solo act in the ’90s, and lately, proving his acting chops are just as solid as his music.The difference now is he seems to have nothing to hide, and Martin’s willingness to be an out and proud celebrity has already benefitted his community at large.Take, for instance, a planned memorial and museum dedicated to the fallen victims of the Pulse massacre, which happened five years ago yesterday.