Trans Actress Tommy Dorfman Announces Engagement to Girlfriend
Trans actress Tommy Dorfman announced she is engaged. Dorfman revealed the news in a recent episode of Rachel Bilson’s podcast, Broad Ideas.
In the episode that premiered Monday, the 13 Reasons Why actress playfully called her partner “just a gay girl.”Though the identity of Tommy’s fiancé has not yet been shared, she described their romance as “very affirming,” and that she would be, “the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with."Dorfman also expressed her feelings about her new love, calling it “safe” and “not safe” at the same time. “Being in love is so scary.
So uncomfortable, so painful. All the universal feelings of being in love that are probably the same,” Dorfman said. The news of an engagement came only months after Dorfman filed for a divorce from her husband, Peter Zurkuhlen, this past February.
The two were married for five years. When Dorfman came out as trans in July 2021 she told Time, in an interview, that she learned, “What I’m interested in is not necessarily reflected in a gay man.” After their amicable split, the 30-year-old was open to exploring love with a woman. “I knew I was interested in women in a way that I hadn’t really been aware of since high school,” she told Bilson.
