13 Reasons Why star, 30, revealed she had "met the person I'm going to spend the rest of my life with" and her new love was a "cis woman."Dorfman was previously married to Peter Zurkuhlen but they split last year after five years of marriage.The actress who also announced her gender affirming transition in 2021, talked about her fiancée on The O.C.
star Rachel Bilson's podcast, Broad Ideas.Dorfman stopped short of identifying her bride-to-be other than describing her as "just a gay girl," but did share a feature of their relationship that was new to her."When I met my person we would just send each other a lot of songs and I sent her a Blossom Dearie song," Dorfman told the podcast host.Bilson said: "I love that when you're falling in love one of the first signs is when you want to share music or songs."But Dorfman revealed that "I've never really done it before."The actress opened up on how her fiancée was the first woman she had been with in a "very long time" after identifying as a gay man for many years, but admitted the relationship was "very affirming.""It's safe.
Also not safe, and like being in love is so scary. So uncomfortable, so painful. All the universal feelings of being in love that are probably the same," she said.Dorfman also explained: "I knew I was interested in women in a way that I hadn't really been aware of since high school."I had this unresolved, unexplored thing.
I was like, 'This is the year that I'm gonna go on some dates with girls and feel that out again, and not feel ashamed about it.'"The Sharp Sticks actress admitted having some doubts about dating women after her transition, "because they thought of me as a gay man, they were like, 'Oh, like you're the safest person in the world,' and.