People that his stepfather began abusing him after they spoke about the birds and the bees. Porter said his stepfather abused him a least twice a week for five years.“As a child, I became a grown man,” Porter said. “In my mind, I lived that experience as if it was an affair.
Because it was loving, it was nurturing, it was confusing. ‘Cause it was touch. It was what I needed; it was the illusion of care, of a big, strong man caring for me.