Dan Savage has issued a warning to one reader, and to gay & bisexual men at large: do not hook up with your straight friends’ boyfriends.“I’m a gay male in his 30s and during the pandemic I stayed with a straight male friend and his girlfriend,” writes reader “Boy Lost & Hurt.” “He’d periodically been flirty with me over the years—sending me nude photos and drunkenly telling me that he loved me.
When his girlfriend was away visiting family we got drunk together. He bought all the alcohol, he mixed it, and he served it.
During this time we had a series of drunken encounters. The first time he took out his c*ck and asked me if I wanted to play with it.