Jeff Levy, a gay, Chicago-based psychotherapist.“At the time, there were no role models in the media and I was coming out during the AIDS crisis.
Although there are more role models for younger gay folks now, I’d encourage younger gay men to reach out to older gay men and to ask questions about their life experiences and relationships.
I think intergenerational friendships and opportunities for mentoring could be incredibly valuable and enriching.”We messaged some gay men over 50 and asked them about things they wished they’d known earlier about love, life, sex, and relationships.
Some replied anonymously while others were happy to be named.Related: Older gays reflect on thirsty photos of their younger selves“When you are dating, don’t.