Cruel Intentions but did, and it was that scene where they made out on the park lawn," Demi said, referring to the scene where Sarah Michelle Gellar's character teaches Selma Blair's character how to kiss. "I was just like, ‘Oh wait a minute, I really like that, I want to try it.' And then when I was 17 I did get down with that." on Demi's coming out story began with telling her friends as a teenager and later her family and then her fans. "I pretty much told all of my friends and my older sister when I was 17," she continued. "They all knew before I brought it to my parents and then to the public.