Asexuality is a very real thing, as we all know by now. But as you’ll see below, gay couples opt not to have sex for any number of reasons.In Reddit’s r/AskGayMen forum, one user recently asked, “Have any of you had a completely non-sexual relationship?
Like, of course there’s intimacy, but never actual sex? Just curious. Coming from a virgin, by the way.”Here are excerpts from that conversation…“I’m in one now, but not of my own choosing.
I have a lung disease which can be controlled but not cured. Eventually, it is going to kill me. (It’ll be a few years before that happens.) I take 13 medications a day so I can breathe.
Now, if I don’t take the medications, I can have all the sex I want—but I’ll also struggle to breathe, and my chest is going to feel like something is crawling around inside my lungs, and breathing is going to feel like I’m trying to drag air through a wet sponge.