Dear Newsweek,I came out late in life as a lesbian. My parents ignore that I am lesbian, they don't support me, but they don't bash me either.
Six years ago when I married a woman, my parents offered very little support. Now, my Dad tells me he has never seen me so happy.
My older brother was awesome, my other brother really hurt me. He and his wife went to their daughters' volleyball game instead of my wedding.
My parents backed him up on it. His 2 older kids over 20 who could have attended my wedding, did not. He never told me congratulations or anything nor did he tell me he wasn't coming.