Runner up: Going to a rage cage to break glass and dishes. Because maybe you are a little angry.Queer-approved themes are: the Harlem Renaissance, '90s pop star drama, best color combinations for flannel shirts, and queer-coded movie villains.Runner up: Hosting your own trivia night with questions about all your friends' exes.Runner up: swapping clothes from your "to sell" bag with the person in front of you in the Buffalo Exchange line.Runner up: Hosting a custom-made murder mystery night based on a true documentary podcast you're newly obsessed with.Runner up: Sitting at a cafe, laptop open, eyes drifting out of the window and towards the shapes in the clouds.Runner up: taking selfies in the host's bedroom wearing a silk robe you found in.