HOLA PAPIHow to Come Out in a Walmart Parking Lot and Other Life LessonsBy John Paul Brammer I first became aware of John Paul Brammer because of his Twitter account.
It’s a feed that shines with subtle and riotously strange queer humor, and because of that, his tweets frequently found their way into my group chats.
Brammer is a queer, mixed-race Mexican American journalist who writes about race, gay love and poppers. He also uses Twitter to share his work, which is how I first stumbled on his advice column, “Hola Papi.” Each week in “Hola Papi,” Brammer shares a letter from a reader facing a quandary about modern queer life — not feeling gay enough, falling in love with straight men — and then he doles out his best guidance in response..