A mid-2010s study found that gay men are partial to eyes, chests, abs, and butts—and that, despite what you might see in adult entertainment, only 36 percent of gay men prefer muscular bodies.But what do gay men find sexy once they get past the looks?One person recently asked Reddit’s r/askgaybros community about the “most attractive thing about guys that isn’t physical.” For that particular pollster, the answer is “when a guy is kind of geeky and likes things most others don’t.”Related: Taste in men quiz: What turns you on may stop you from finding the oneDozens of commenters joined in the conversation, and here are some of the best responses:“Empathy.”“Returning messages.”“When a guy is really funny.
Also being kind and loving. Their personality just becomes like a giant hug to everyone they’re around.”“When he cooks.”“Eye contact.”“Loyalty.
Someone who’s there for the good times and the bad.”“Their sense of humor and ease in sharing it. Sometimes it feels like a universal language.”“Manners, respect, table etiquette, and being a true gentleman are sexy AF.”“For me, that they never actually grow up.
When a guy remains fun and a bit childish, but in a good way. Also, it is a bit physical, but the laugh. Men are so cute when they laugh.”“When they have a super eclectic and expansive music taste and knowledge.”“Handy.” (In response, another commenter quipped: “Correction: handsy.”)“Shyness and kindness.”Related: Guys name the male body parts they find least appealing“When they are passionate about their hobbies, which is why I love the hobby trend right now.”“I love the way a guy’s voice sounds, and also, when a guy is a little cocky, tbh (but not to the point of being a jerk).”“Having real interests, passions, and.