‘I'm a gay man of 60 and have learnt my late husband cheated for 20 years – how do I learn to trust again?’
telegraph.co.uk– BrokenThis is heartbreaking. We are so sorry for the loss of both your beloved husband and the mutually faithful relationship you believed you shared with him.
It is little wonder you feel shattered and isolated. We are also very sorry that you have no remaining family to turn to and little trust in the world.
You have suffered a devastating blow. Your feelings are all appropriate and understandable.That said, you still have choices.
You still have the agency to run your own life and a future to build. You do not have to resign yourself to the bleakness of eternal sequestration – even though, right now, little else feels possible.Discovering your husband’s secret life, with no recourse for any kind of explanation or reassurance, must have been – and continue to be – traumatic.
