Dear Jake,I met a great guy on Grindr. It was supposed to be just a hookup but we ended up getting to know each other and now it’s been about four months.
It feels like a relationship. We hold hands, we cook dinner together, and, even during social distancing, we are still going out walking in the neighborhood.
But he still goes on Grindr a lot. He says he’s just going on to chat, but most guys aren’t on there just to “chat.”A few weeks ago, he showed me a guy who wanted to have a three-way.
I really wasn’t into it. An hour later, I noticed he was still on Grindr after he left my house, but his location wasn’t very far away and his profile picture was next to the guy he was talking about earlier.