Dear Jake, I met a great guy on Grindr. It was supposed to be just a hookup but we ended up getting to know each other and now it’s been about four months.
It feels like a relationship. We hold hands, we cook dinner together, and, even during social distancing, we are still going out walking in the neighborhood.
But he still goes on Grindr a lot. He says he’s just going on to chat, but most guys aren’t on there just to “chat.” A few weeks ago, he showed me a guy who wanted to have a three-way.