A woman says she has long-known her boyfriend had a gay past. It didn’t used to bother her, but lately it’s all she can think about, so she’s seeking help from advice guru Dear Deidre. “My partner insists that he is not gay but he has admitted to having had sex with another man before we became a couple,” the woman writes.
She goes on to explain that they’re both in their early 30s now and have been dating for just over a year, though they’ve been friends since their mid 20s. “Before we got