Views expressed in The Advocate’s opinion articles are those of the writers and do not necessarily represent the views of The Advocate or our parent company.I am a Tulsa native and grew up on the west side of Tulsa.
I spent some time away in Fort Smith, Ark., to take a break from my busy life back in 2017. When I returned to Tulsa in 2019, I realized there was not a Black queer organization to support our community, so I got busy with creating that space.
My goal is to make Black Queer Tulsa not just accessible to Tulsa but to the whole state of Oklahoma. When I was young, I didn't have the correct environment to grow in, and there wasn’t anything out there where I could try to enjoy my experience as a Black gay man.
As a result, I have spent a lot of my life running from myself to meet the social standards of a heteronormative and white society.