here! You've heard of heteronormativity, now allow me to introduce you to compulsory heterosexuality, which is the idea that society forces heterosexuality on people of all genders, but especially women.
Since heterosexuality is so ingrained in our culture, and we often grow up thinking it's our only option, it can be difficult to determine how much of my perceived attraction to men and women alike is what I actually feel instead of what I should feel.
I wholeheartedly believed this was true while I thought I was straight, but apparently, it’s pretty gay to think all women are just more attractive than men.
I spent so much time thinking that I must be attracted to specific men because I was able to recognize that they were attractive people.