There's no right or wrong time to come out as LGBTQ — every individual's experience is different, and it's important to honor everyone's journeys and what works best for them."I just came out at the age of 30.
I had no lesbian role models growing up, and only heard people talking about men identifying as queer. I was 21 before I realized I 'must' be bi because I'd dated men but also liked women, but the idea of telling people terrified me.
So, I just tried to make it work with men. Jump forward to 29 and I realized I'm DEFINITELY a lesbian. I started dating my current girlfriend and decided it was finally time to tell my family and friends.