A bisexual man in his 30s says he likes sleeping with men, but he’s worried that he treats them too much like sex objects, so he’s seeking advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly at the Guardian.“I greatly enjoy sex with women,” the man explains, “but the thought of it doesn’t turn me on as much as the thought of receiving anal sex from a man.”There’s just one problem.“When I am physically intimate with a man I find it difficult, if not impossible, to maintain an erection,” the man confesses.“In some ways, this is fine, but I’m worried that the men I sleep with think I’m not enjoying it, or don’t know whether I am or not.”Digging deeper, the man goes on to say that he thinks it might have to do with the fact that he’s just not as attracted.