My sister didn’t want my husband in her wedding pics — am I wrong to be upset?
“Am I The Asshole” subreddit. He wanted to know if he was being the a-hole by leaving his sister’s wedding early.The overwhelming majority of respondents believed he behaved reasonably.“Has your sister always been shamelessly homophobic, or has the wedding brought out a new side of her?” was one well-liked response.Another summed up the feelings of many, saying, “She expects you to celebrate her marriage while she disrespects yours.
Good on you for respecting your husband.”“Anne did not get the picture asked for,” replied another. “When you look back at the pictures your husband’s absence will be abundantly clear.
Don’t blame you for leaving.”Some said that even having the little sister stand between the couple was not an acceptable compromise.“Even the suggestion of the little sister between the couple is weird just for aesthetics, when everyone sees partners together but then the couple segregated that would seem odd to me,” said one person. “If the bride wasn’t homophobic she would have one picture with all couples together (little sis can be on the end or even in the middle), then another with everyone arranged in height order with alternating sexes.”Lastly, a depressingly large number of people responded that they too had been cut from wedding photos because they “didn’t match the vibe”.
This turned out usually be down to them being a different ethnicity or disabled. The original writer added, for clarification, that his husband is white (“like most of my family”) and able-bodied.
