Gay men share what they believe a healthy relationship looks like
AskGayBrosOver30 subreddit to ask for feedback about what a relationship looks like.“Since my breakup from my relationship seven months ago, I’ve been talking with my therapist about healthy relationships and what they could look like.
In hindsight, many of my relationships have not been healthy,” he said.Subscribe to our newsletter for a refreshing cocktail (or mocktail) of LGBTQ+ entertainment and pop culture, served up with a side of eye-candy.“I’m curious what folks here think about relationships.
What does a healthy relationship look like to you? And how have you brought the healthiest version of yourself into them? Whatever that looks like.”Men, some of whom had been in relationships for many years, replied.“A healthy relationship looks like two people that know each other, understand their differences, and respect those differences,” was one well-liked comment. “You are not in a relationship to change someone, but in a relationship to lean on each other and when differences arise, that you can talk about them in a healthy way.“The more you know yourself and know your flaws, you can be the best version of yourself in an open and transparent way,” he concluded.Another said a healthy relationship does not look like anything in particular.
It’s simply, “the inevitable outcome of two psychologically healthy people being in a relationship.”“To me, that means the guy is confident, competent, and communicative.
