Hi JakeMy husband and I have been together for 11 years and our love is still very strong. There’s just one teeny tiny but also very LARGE problem.
I am the, um, girthiest guy he’s ever been with. In the beginning, this wasn’t as much of a problem. With enough booze and poppers (and lube!), we were able to have great sex for hours at a time.
Then about a year ago, he gave up drugs and alcohol entirely. Being sober has helped him tremendously… except when it comes to our sex life.
He says he can’t bottom anymore because he can’t relax and it causes too much pain. Obviously, I don’t want to hurt him, but I also can’t go the rest of my life without ever topping again. From Top to NotDear From Top to Not,I want to first congratulate your husband.