A woman says she suspects her boyfriend of five years might be into guys. Maybe he’s bisexual? Maybe he’s gay? She doesn’t know.
So she’s writing to advice columnist Julia Naftulin at Insider for answers.“I recently learned that my boyfriend of five years previously received oral sex from a man… twice,” the woman writes. “I’ve also caught him watching gay porn on multiple occasions.”This has lead her to come to the conclusion that he must be bisexual.“But whenever I ask him about his sexuality,” she continues, “he always claims not to be bisexual.”Now, she isn’t sure what to say, think, or do.“I’m wondering if, despite his insistence, he really is bisexual, or maybe he’s gay,” she writes.