Bottoms reveal the things tops do that turn them off
AskGayBros subreddit: “In general, what would make you not want to have sex with a top again?”It prompted well over 100 responses in less than a day.
Here are some of the more popular replies.“If it’s clear he doesn’t care at all about my sexual pleasure and only focuses on him getting off,” offered one user. “Bonus points if he’s the type to block you and then unblock you whenever he wants to f*ck again.
It’s a massive turn-off.”“A selfish top,” said another. “There’s a time and place for that sort of sex, but I wouldn’t want to be with someone regularly who’s selfish and doesn’t care about me.”Many others agreed: selfish lovers do not prompt return visits … unless you’ve got a kink for that sort of thing.
Which, actually, some people have.“Sometimes I like to bottom and when I bottom, I’m very submissive,” countered one. “There’s something about the absolute disregard for my pleasure that I find quite hot.
